Although actress and former PBB grand winner Melai Cantiveros seems to be financially stable, she admits that she refuses to extend her help to her relatives especially when it comes to their tuition fees.
On a Youtube vlog of Enchong Dee released on Friday (April 2), Melai revealed that she does not want to pay for her relatives tuition fees.
According to Melai, it is not her obligation to send help to people by shouldering their responsibility.
“Kunyari sa mga pinsan ko, hindi ako magbabayad ng mga tuition fee nila. Hihingan ako ng kapatid ng pang-tuition, (sasabihin ko) ‘Ba’t ako (magbabayad ng) tuition fee ng anak mo?’ Eh anak mo ‘yan,” Melai said.
The actress shared, her father taught her not to rely on others but to work hard to achieve her dreams, that is why she is remaining firm with her decision not to help her relatives even on their education.
“The best ‘yung maging breadwinner pero dapat breadwinners… Lahat kayo breadwinners ng family. Kunwari nagta-trabaho si Ate. Dapat nagta-trabaho ka rin. Kunyari sinabi ng kapamilya ko tuition fee, (sasabihin ko) ba’t ako mag-tuition fee? Pagalitan talaga. Manginginig ka talaga,” she added.
Nevertheless, Melai said that her siblings understand her reason for not sending help. In spite of her strict rule, she always makes sure to treat and spoil her family by bringing them on vacations and such.
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ReplyDeletetayong mga pinoy nakaugalian na sa pamilya mag tulongan pero kac pag my sariling pamilya kana o ang mga kapatid mo my mga sariling problema at responsibilidad na din na di mo kailangan iasa sa bread winner ng pamilya porket my trabaho o magandang hanap buhay ito.. at pangit din kac e spoil mo kapamilya mo na umasa sayo dahil parang ikw na nag utos maging tamad cla at maging makuntinto nalang sa mabibigay mo dahil alam nilang meron ka.. eehh pano pag ikw na naman ang wala? my maitutulong ba cla? na hnd na sila nagka taon mag banat ng buto at mag plano para sa kinabukasan dahil sa pag kunsinti mo.. maraming panahon na nasayang dhl hinayaan mo clang umasa sayo.. kaya ako naintindihan ko side ni melay.. iba na usapan pag my pamilya na.. dahil di natin alam ang panahon.. hnd habang buhay my aasahang oportunity at hnd habang panahon kaya nya mag trabaho lagi..kailangan nya din mag ipon para sa sariling pamilya lalo na sa mga anak upang maging handa kung sakaling mawala na ang mga pinagkukunang carrer nya dba.. Godbless milay.. laban lang.. ��������
ReplyDeleteKami,nagpa-aral din ng few siblings ni hubby, nephews namin, nag-bigay ng pang-tuition at iba pa.. at the same time tinutulungan din kami sa gawaing-bahay; kung alin ang most need...kung may mai-tutulong, ok.
ReplyDelete# depende talaga sa tao 'yan kung ano ang hilig itulong. God bless *